Firstly, I will publish his apology. Then I will tell you about why he apologised and my experience of the night.
Paul Draper was the lead singer in Mansun, my favourite band of the last 20 years. Mansun was the first gig I went to! They split up in early 2000s and the fans have been enjoying their extensive back catalogue ever since.
A couple of years ago, Paul decided to start recording solo material and collaborated with the very talented Anchoress to produce his album, Spooky Action, which was released last year.
I saw him in concert last September in Birmingham and he was great. Mansun had always been a phenomenal live band. They added a new dimension to their songs when playing live, and I was lucky enough to see them five times back in the day. He was just as good last year, with his new band.
This year, he announced a special tour of his solo work, plus he would perform Mansun’s first album in full.
My closest gig was Nottingham, which is about an hour away, traffic permitting.
On Monday night I drove over after work and arrived super early at the Rescue Rooms to get to the front. I bought my tour t-shirt and read my book while I waited.
Sol Croft supported and played his intense acoustic set first. He also supported the September tour and I thought he had got more confident since then.
At 8:30, the Spooky Action set began.
The first song was ‘Don’t Poke The Bear’. This song has a mega long introduction so I didn’t think anything was amiss when Paul didn’t come on straight away. He came on in time to start singing and all good.
Straight into next song, ‘Grey House’. All good, slight mess up with lyrics but that is standard for Paul.
Straight into ‘The Silence is Deafening’. At this point I started to get an uneasy feeling. Normally Paul is interacting with the audience, a bit of banter between songs etc. That night, he was moving straight into songs, not acknowledging the audience. He was drinking red wine from a glass and beckoned a roadie onto stage to fill it up for him a couple of times. He must have drunk nearly a pint of wine during the first two or three songs which seemed to tip him over the edge.
He got through the song and I commented to someone standing next to me in the crowd that he seemed really drunk. There was an uneasy atmosphere in the crowd as we were expecting Paul to talk to us between songs, but he was racing through as though he just wanted to get it over with as soon as possible.
Straight into ‘Things People Want’. Now this song is a bit of a story, it’s about feeling miserable and fed up in the first verse, then moving on to appreciate things that mean the most, which aren’t material possessions or Facebook likes. I could tell something was seriously wrong when he kept repeating the same lyrics from the first verse. They keyboard player was trying to sing backing vocals but as they were different to what Paul was singing she had to give up. He stopped singing about halfway through and half heartedly played along with the band. The song came to an end.
Next song was ‘Friends Make The Worst Enemies’. This is an amazing live track and the band gave it everything to create a wall of sound. Paul started to sing, but again kept repeating lyrics and got lost, which meant the backing singer couldn’t sing either. He gave up and stopped singing altogether and then walked off the stage before the song had finished.
At first the band were laughing off Paul’s mistakes in earlier songs but they weren’t laughing now and looked really confused and awkward. The band completed the song as an instrumental. It was almost like a soundtrack of the moment as the music itself is so intense. One fan described it as this: ‘The extended instrumental outtro which the band kept going was super eerie, and seemed to last an age. I’ve never experienced anything quite like that feeling of collective tension and confusion, with a live soundtrack to accompany it. It truly was surreal. Life imitating art.‘
The band left the stage when they finished the song. The crowd gave them a clap and cheer to recognise how difficult it must be to play on when you don’t know what’s going on.
Paul’s guitar technician came on and said ‘He’ll be back on soon’ or words to that effect.
At this point I text my husband and told him that Paul seemed completely shit-faced. Not just a bit merry, but drunk to the point where you just want to slump in the corner and tell everyone to leave you alone.
I decided to go home. Even if he had come back on I didn’t want to watch him having such a public breakdown. Something had obviously gone seriously wrong and I didn’t think the stage was the best place for him.
After I got home I found out he had come back on after a 50 minute gap and carried on. He played 9 Mansun songs and according to YouTube he sat down during the penultimate one, not singing or playing and then was helped off the stage by the guitar technician.
I posted on Facebook about it.
That was my knee-jerk reaction. But it’s more than the lost time and the lost money. It’s the disappointment of knowing that the rest of the tour got an amazing gig and I got a very unpleasant experience. It’s horrible to watch someone you have followed for twenty years be so broken so publicly.
I’m not deluding myself that he is the ultimate professional and sober all of the time. But he normally functions and that night, he stopped functioning.